Get a specified row and you will be able to post any fields to server. The code below shows how to delete the selected row.
var row = $('#dg').datagrid('getSelected');
if (row){
$.post(url, {
order_id: row.order_id,
order_item_id: row.order_item_id
}, function(){
$('#dg').datagrid('reload');
});
}